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Blaming the victim is another way perpetrators maintain control over their victims – it shifts the responsibility to the woman.Manipulating her into thinking she is responsible is a ploy abusers use to deflect from their violent and controlling behaviour.The star, who was arrested and placed on probation for five years and sentenced to six months community service over the altercation in 2009, has opened up in a new documentary, According to the 28 year old, the incident began at a pre-Grammys party when a woman who Chris had admitted to sleeping with before he started dating Rihanna, 29, turned up at the same party. Chris initially managed to calm her down, but on the way home, after a few drinks, things escalated.Chris handed Rihanna his phone to prove that there were no suspicious messages from the unnamed woman on there, but Rihanna found an unread message from her saying she’d be at the party.Maybe I'm one of those people built to handle sh*t like this," Rihanna now shares about her state of mind at the time. But you know, you realize after a while that in that situation you're the enemy."Maybe I’m the person who’s almost the guardian angel to this person, to be there when they're not strong enough, when they're not understanding the world, when they just need someone to encourage them in a positive way and say the right thing." "I was very protective of him," she stresses. You want the best for them, but if you remind them of their failures, or if you remind them of bad moments in their life, or even if you say I’m willing to put up with something, they think less of you -- because they know you don't deserve what they’re going to give.Chris said in the documentary: "She starts going off, she throws the phone, ‘I hate you!
Sources told us that Rihanna and Brown have not spoken to each other for months.We all say and do things we later regret, but domestic violence does not ‘take two’.No woman can make a man hit her; violence is a choice he makes and he alone is responsible for it.While Rihanna is known for her awe-inspiring confidence, the 27-year-old singer nevertheless shows her vulnerable side when it comes to her controversial relationship with Chris Brown in a candid new interview with After 26-year-old Brown pleaded guilty to felony assault and accepted a plea deal in 2009 after an altercation with Rihanna turned physical the night before the GRAMMYs that year, the singer resumed dating him in 2013, before splitting up again several months later.
"I was that girl -- that girl who felt that as much pain as this relationship is, maybe some people are built stronger than others.’ She tried to grab for my phone, and I'm not giving her my phone, to throw it out the window." He says he then pulled over: “I'm just trying to resolve the situation, I'm not trying to fight.“She takes the keys out of the car...